Stop sexualizing my body stop shaming my body stop policing my body
I often wish going topless was ok for ladies. I honestly don’t understand why it’s such a big deal, but then again I did spend a decent chunk of my childhood in Germany where it wasn’t a big deal. Also the shaving thing, since as of this year I’ve gone from shaving as little as possible (like only if my legs/pits would be exposed) to giving up on shaving entirely. So far no one has said anything, so hopefully that’ll keep being the case.. because not shaving ever is the best.
One of the biggest things I don’t understand is why people seem to be scared of nips. Like everyone has nipples and people seem to find it acceptable if a man’s nips are all pointing about ‘cause it’s cold but then, if a lady’s nipples are visible through her shirt people just thinks she’s a skank. What’s up with that?
Also, ain’t nothing wrong with boobs flying free. I often get jealous when I’m working out with my boyfriend in his garage and it’s really hot so he’ll just rip off his shirt and continue his work out whereas I just have to keep on wearing my shirt and sweating all over. Just ain’t right. Plus his man pecs are like, twice as big as my tiny boobs, so what’ s the big deal?